*. Since then, we’ve been eating it every day, and probably will for a week. Required fields are marked *. It doesn’t have to be fancy; it’s more important that I follow through and make it happen. —Shauna Niequist. To one of the kindest friends I have, your tips are perfect, and clearly something you practice on a daily basis. Life is short! In a large salad bowl, combine the brown rice, kidney beans, black beans, corn, onion, and jalapeno peppers. Or, just use a food processor to chop everything. ©2020 Reluctant Entertainer. Your email address will not be published. originally published April 27, 2016 — last updated November 12, 2018 When we do the hard, intimate work of friendship, we bring a little more of the divine into daily life. Yikes! This low-fat spicy salad with Latin American flavours is packed with fresh vegetables for a filling lunch. Another reason why the table experience is so important! I really appreciate some of my older (sturdy) friendships in life … like childhood friends, and friends I went through my single years (20’s) with.  I love to have something a little different to bring to a party! Food is my love language and I really love to feel people. Stir in beans, onions, pepper and avocado. Comment document.getElementById("comment").setAttribute( "id", "aeff6cf309b478f63cae39c6b6c00f82" );document.getElementById("a4eec86540").setAttribute( "id", "comment" ); By submitting this comment you agree to share your name, email address, website and IP address with Reluctant Entertainer. I believe in listening. Stir until mixed. Yuck. Rustle up a rice salad as a main or side dish.  Your salad looks good. Pour over the rice mix, stir in the coriander and serve with extra lime wedges. From rice tabbouleh to warm salads, using brown, white, short- or long-grain, browse our best recipes. It makes me feel good and they get to enjoy some delicious food. Lightly toss all ingredients with the dressing; sprinkle with salt to taste. // I ran into a friend at the grocery store one day, and she asked me if we were coming to their party (said I hadn’t responded to their invite… or their follow up invite!) I think a mixture of sour cream and mayo would also be good in the dressing, and I think sliced olives would be nice on top, too. In a large salad bowl, combine the brown rice, kidney beans, black beans, corn, onion, green pepper, … Bring 2 cups water to a boil in a medium saucepan. I’ve been very blessed to developed some incredibly deep and authentic relationships over the years. New! Part of hosting a party, whether with my husband and a couple or two, or with a bunch of girlfriends, is asking questions around the table about our guests’ lives. Add the garlic … The party was from 1-5 pm; I read 5 pm! This salad is spectacular. Design by Purr. Get new posts delivered directly to your email box: Your email address will not be published. Feasting on Life is real, and every time we do it, we grow a little more. Good Food DealReceive a free Graze box delivered straight to your door. I had made a giant Mexican Rice Salad, and was so excited to bring this dish. Love you much! I haven’t had a Mexican salad with rice in it and I am certainly going to add it to my favorite Mexican inspired salad next time.Â, Great post Sandy!!! Over all rating: ★ ★ ★ ★ ☆ Cost of ingredients: $$ Level: Easy Time to cook: 30 minutes Recipe from: Cooking Classy Food for Thought: The only reason this recipe is missing a star is because my fiancé (who grew up in a town near the Mexican boarder) said that this did not taste authe Through great recipes and connection around the table, we become better, stronger, and more courageous people. Posted in: Appetizers, Beans, Entertaining, Introvert/Extrovert, Life, Parties, Recipes, Relationships, Side Dishes, Soups & Salads, Summer Parties, Themed Parties, Why Reluctant?  I hate not being on the ball like that, but I know it happens!! I agree, we all want be gracious :). If you’re gearing up for Cinco de Mayo in a few weeks, or you’re planning a Mexican feast, this is a delicious salad (or dip).  I was being honest, but it felt very awkward… like I was trying to come up with an excuse!! Stir in rice and salt and return to … Cook the rice following pack instructions. She thought I would love it, and I did! Forgiveness is important, too, especially if the friendship doesn’t turn out the way you thought it should. This information will not be used for any purpose other than enabling you to post a comment. :) I've got a couple other bean & corn So, of course anytime someone is coming over I am cooking something. Feasting on Life begins the moment we open our door (and hearts) to hospitality, wherever we are. I never want to be in a rut, only thinking about myself. Having RSVP’d while I was in Italy, I knew the date of the party, and what to bring, but missed one important piece to the text message. It’s okay to occasionally evaluate our friendships and where we are headed in life. You could add black beans, chicken breast, or other protein to make it more filling, if you wanted to serve it as a main-course salad. What can you do to take those qualities and celebrate them? Cook ahead of time a bit pot of Costco’s SunWest Organic Sprouted Medley Rice, using leftovers for this salad. Bring to a boil, stirring the tomato paste to dissolve it if using, and cover with a tight-fitting lid. I have to admit I can be a tad socially awkward.  I was so embarrassed. In a small bowl add the olive oil, lime zest and juice, cilantro, garlic, honey, and cumin. I'm Sandy—lover of food, family, cooking, THE BIG BOARD, travel, and bringing people together. She knows how much I like light bean and corn salads, so she made it with me in mind, for a bridal shower we were throwing. I also keep in touch with my friends through email and texting. I send them a little note when I’m thinking about them. Healthy friendships require commitment, honesty, and and effort. I believe in initiating, which is why I host so many parties. The salad that I made … when we missed the party. Sigh. Friends, I did something this past weekend that I’ve never done before. So, yes, my husband and I missed the party (a larger party). Drain, then cool under cold running water until completely cold. Welcome to my home and table! Australia's #1 food site In a small bowl add the olive oil, lime zest and juice, cilantro, garlic, honey, and … We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com. I believe in celebration. I missed a party! I apologized to our gracious friend, and asked if we’d ever be invited again. This Mexican Rice Salad is delicious to serve as a salad or dip for a Mexican Fiesta party! I always want to be learning how to be a better friend. I also started a text chain when I am recipe developing so I can share all that love (and extra food) with my friends. LOL. Recipe from Good Food magazine, February 2012. HA! Mixed with bright beautiful colors. This confetti rice salad recipe might appear to require lots of slicing and dicing, but truth be told, all the veggies can probably be prepped in less than 15 minutes. I got this recipe from my mother-in-law, who got it from a colleague. When I want to see my friends (who bring me so much joy), I set up a dinner party. I know, if you’re an introvert, it’s hard to verbalize what you are feeling, but there are other ways to show that you care. Here’s one thing that I have learned: If someone is easily offended by you, or not happy for you, or in your corner like a good friend should be, then they probably are not a good friend. Use leftover rice and this side dish comes together in minutes. Heat the oil in a saucepan and sizzle the onion for 5 mins until just starting to soften.